Monday, January 31, 2011

Pawn coolness

We are not huge TV watchers around here, but we do enjoy having cable and a DVR. I think if we didn't have cable we probably wouldn't ever watch any TV...I can't tell you the last time we watched anything network (aside from occasionally watching the local weather and an on-again off-again ~currently off-again~ relationship with The Office). And if we didn't have DVR, well, with kids we probably wouldn't watch any TV either, because it would always be either interrupted or inconvenient. Or both. (Plus don't even get me started on commercials these days...) And maybe that wouldn't be such a bad thing, I gave a great amount of respect for those whose households are TV-free (check out my friend Debi!). But alas, we admittedly enjoy a handful of shows/documentaries (and the occasional sporting event, namely MLB) on channels like History, Discovery, TLC, Food Network, Science, NatGeo and if it were up to me solely, HGTV as well.

One of the shows that we regularly DVR is Pawn Stars, a show featuring the family-run Gold and Silver Pawn Shop in Las Vegas, NV and the various interesting items that make their way into the shop. I just think it's really cool, and it always holds our interest and makes for some fun conversation as we watch: guessing at item values, answering the trivia questions, and talking about some of the obscure, cool items (once they even had someone bring in a relic of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton - and no, if you were wondering, they didn't buy it, as the buying and selling of relics is forbidden) and eccentric people that come into the shop. But I digress. The whole point of this blog-post stems from the episode we watched last week called "Pedal to the Metal". In it, a man brings in a 1950's toy pedal-car in fairly rough condition. As it turned out (spoiler alert), the car ended up being worth upwards of $1000 restored...which I found to be particularly cool as our family actually owns one of these cars. It was my dad's as a child, and after I emailed him about the show he dug up this picture of him in the pedal car circa 1956.
Pretty cool. It has actually been painted since and is red now, so would probably need some restoring of its own to reach its potential worth. Not that we intend to restore or sell it or anything like that (I believe my sister has it now), but never-the-less pretty neat to know its worth. One of those random things that made this particular episode especially enjoyable.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Birthday Party 2011

We decided it made most sense this year to have a joint birthday party for the children, with their birthdays being just five days apart. We had a really fun time! We had grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and godparents over in the late afternoon/evening for some homemade pizza and birthday cake. And presents. Oh the presents. People were so unbelievably generous with our children, it was incredibly humbling. But alas, the pictures - I'm sure - are what you came here to see. So without further ado...

The awesome Little Bear cake my mom made.
Very proud.
Party plates and stuff
The children's Baptism pictures and baby books out for people to see
Opening presents. Gemma really got into the whole present thing this Christmas and birthday season. Very exciting for her!
Even Kolbe got in on the present opening action!
But I think his favorite activity was still eating the paper. Hey, at least he spit it out because it was apparently yucky rather than swallowing it!
Gemma in the super-cool cat-ears my sis made her. (she is obsessed with being a cat, and will even tell random strangers her name is "cat")
Library bag I made Gemma (she likes it!)
Crazy kiddo madness...checking out one of Kolbe's new toys.
Gemma was very excited to get dominoes (I love her smile). She had told me the entire week leading up to her birthday that grandma was going to get her some dominoes. And grandma came through!!!
The party crowd (our house was bursting at its seams...but we all had such a nice time!)
Time for cake!
Kolbe gets his first try (and as was his sister two years ago, fairly indifferent). He ate a little bit but then just started chucking it on the floor. And waving bye-bye at it. Stinker ;-D
He didn't eat much, but the bath was still the best means of cleaning him up. Messy boy!!
Gemma wanted to eat Little Bear's head. Should I be disturbed by this? I mean, really??!
And a picture of Gemma with her sweet godmother.
And another "birthday week" is in the books.

Friday, January 28, 2011

Lessons from the High Places

I recently finished Hinds' Feet on High Places, and also read the "Lessons" and autobiography at the end. When I was younger I never read prologues, epilogues, autobiographies, anything like that. As I've gotten older, I've begun reading these and have found that often these "added" sections can contain rare gems and interesting insights that would otherwise be overlooked by the reader. This definitely held true with Hinds' Feet. While the book itself was totally amazing, don't get me wrong, the section at the end - "Lessons Learned on the Slopes of the High Places" - was intriguing and awe-inspiring. In this section the author spoke of her experiences during a two-week period spent on the Swiss Alps that led to her "call" to write in the first place. It connected a lot of dots, was very fascinating, and true to its name contained some beautiful lessons. I thought I'd share a few of my favorites here on the blog.

In this lesson, she is speaking of the fickle mountain whether. One moment it is sunny, the next an all-encompassing mist covers everything. The rains come, the thunder can shake you to your foundation. But even so...


"How suddenly the change had come. One moment I was gazing almost breathlessly at the beauty of the Haustock as the clouds lifted from it for the first time. Then just half an hour later all the snow mountains were blotted out as completely as if they did not exist...Then my Lord said, 'These changes come in life, too. For one hour the vision on the Mount, and then perhaps almost directly, the descent into the depths of the valley where the vision may seem to be completely blotted out by changed circumstances. But believe steadfastly in what I showed you in the hours of vision and clear sky. The reality is there still, even though a curtain seems to blot it out. You have seen the Haustock, and though there is no trace of it now, and it has disappeared like a dream, nevertheless it is there. It is a reality. But the mist and cloud are transient and will pass away, and the true reality appear again!'" (page 260)

And then she goes on several pages later, speaking still of the heavy mist...

"If a person had never been here before, that one would not even dimly guess at what lies beyond the curtain of mist. All that I have looked upon and loved and rejoiced over has disappeared completely. 'But it is all there,' says the loving Lord, 'though you cannot see any of it, for it has been completely blotted out and apparently vanished into nothingness. But remember, nothing is missing. It is invisible now but is is waiting to become visible again. And its last message to you is this: Believe steadfastly in the invisible things. For the things which are seen are temporal: but the things which are not seen are eternal' (cf 2 Cor. 4:18)." (page 269)

I guess this was just a really powerful reflection for me on life in general. I get so caught up in the day-to-day that sometimes it is just darn hard to focus on the eternal. On our only real goal in life. The only true "reality" in our journey as children of God. In the story, the five main "bad guys" are Fear, Bitterness, Resentment, Pride and Self-Pity. With this I can totally identify and relate on a pathetically real level. It is so easy to let these stumbling blocks consume me. Frequently. Daily. Hourly. To not see the forest for the trees. To wallow, as it were, grudgingly through the day-to-day without keeping my eyes on the prize, my perspective on the eternal. Oh how I struggle.

In speaking of our journey through life she says,

"In heaven everyone and everything is lovable, but as the Lord Jesus said, 'If ye love them which love you, what reward have ye?" (Matt. 5:46) In heaven everyone loves everyone else, and in hell no one loves anyone. But on earth we are in a perfect environment (emphasis mine, I just love this) for learning to love as God loves: to abandon ourselves to loving the apparently unlovely people who remind us that in many ways we are still very unlovely ourselves! (wow) ... Here on earth we have the opportunity to do what the God of love does all the time, and to learn to abandon ourselves to loving, to giving, to seeking, and to saving others. Not a lovely feeling of affection, or physical pleasure and satisfaction, but the extreme eternal ecstasy of creating happiness and good and blessed things for others to enjoy. To cast ourselves down...in happy giving, asking for nothing in return except the joy of so doing. When we really begin to learn and practice that lesson we shall begin to feel 'at home' in the eternal world of selfless love." (page 277)

And a bit later, as she is viewing the Alps one last time from the airplane...

"In that hour, in the airplane above the Alps, my little narrow, cold, self-centered human heart caught a tiny but staggering glimpse of what it means to be the sons and daughters of the eternal God of love. We are called to love with the fullest capacity of which we are capable. To love as He loves, and so to be an echo - faint and feeble, but a true one - of that eternal self, giving us drops of the water of life, poured out in the cataract of the divine self-giving." (page 284)

This is a book I can see coming back to again and again...and taking away something different and unique yet completely applicable each time. I hope you have enjoyed these reflections. They sure struck a vibrant chord with me.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Small successes XXIV

1. Vacuumed the house while wearing my (20lb) baby on my back. WOOT! (Thanks for the inspiration, Mary Elizabeth!) 2. Got our weekly Scripture verses (typically the Responsorial Psalm) that we hang on our fridge and try to recite throughout the week written out on color-coded papers from now through Palm Sunday. If you're not familiar with it, the USCCB has a great section on their website with the daily Mass readings.
3. Survived our overnight family trip this past weekend, with a feverish Kolbe to boot. (He started running the fever after we'd already gotten to our destination...I don't make a habit of dragging my children places when they're sick.) And we all had a really nice time (Aaron and his dad hunted, the kids and I spent the day with my MIL and her parents). I am a home-body through-and-through, so this is big, people! ;-D We had fun and made it home safely and with our sanity intact, so I consider that a success!

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Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Whiney Wednesday XIV

1. Gemma. Must you take your pants and underwear completely off every time you use the restroom. Really?

2. Our December and January have been inordinately busy (by our standards) and it is about to push me over the edge. The holidays, parties, birthdays, weddings, showers, professional pictures, a couple out-of-town trips, taxes, projects, ACK! I need a break from life.


3. OH my children. How I love you and how you drive me crazy. I feel like I can't spend any time with Gemma one-on-one anymore. Kolbe is kicking the morning nap, and they nap at the same time(ish) in the afternoon. This would be super-duper handy if Kolbe slept in his bed. Lately though nothin' doing. (and I do love the snuggles, really, they make me smile and feel all warm and fuzzy and I know I'm going to miss them when they're but a memory, but at the same time, the 24/7 incredible neediness is just getting exhausting.) I try to do things with Gemma and Kolbe is either needy or getting into things. I can't even read her a story anymore without being interrupted no less than seven times. Forget puzzles, painting and all those other things we'd been having fun with. Then I turn my back to do something and if Kolbe isn't getting into something Gemma is knocking him over or trying to smother him with...hugs? Or something. I guess I'm just at a stage in my children's lives where I feel incapable of doing anything right or well some days and my patience gets oh so thin. How do you moms of four or five or six do it?! And homeschool on top of that?!!!! HELP!

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Monday, January 24, 2011

Baptism anniversaries

After discussing it with some friends at our Motherhood group and hearing my sister talk about some of the traditions they've started with their children, I thought it would be nice to start 'celebrating' the children's Baptism anniversaries. This was our first year to do this with Gemma (although her godmother helped commemorate the special day the other years). We showed her the album with her Baptism pictures, lit her Baptismal candle, said some prayers (as she gets older, we'll have her renew her Baptismal vows) and gave her a little gift (a book called A is for Altar, B is for Bible, which I would highly recommend for young children).

Here she is with her candle. I was very relieved she didn't burn herself with hot wax (note to self, get a taper-holder). Looking at her new book and her Baptism pictures. She was comparing (with my help) the "O is for Oil" with the picture of her anointing with Sacred Chrism. And a look back to January 20, 2008... You can click here for a look back at Kolbe's Baptism (and if you're wondering: yes, they were both Baptized in the same gown). We didn't really do anything special for him this year, but his godmother (my sis I mentioned above) gave him a call to wish him a happy day and assure him of her prayers. She also gave him this super-cool keyring Mass "toy" as part of his birthday present.
There is nothing more beautiful in this world (in my opinion) than seeing your precious son or daughter become a child of God through Baptism...the only eternal gift we can give our children.

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Dishwasher helper

Gemma loves being a helper. I like seeing her help, even if it isn't always necessarily "helpful". ;-D I know she's learning good lessons. This day she decided unload the dishwasher. By herself. During the middle of lunch. How could I tell her no? She was so eager to help. I love the way she "organized" everything, it made me chuckle. My sweet, OCD little girl.

Friday, January 21, 2011

Kolbe - 12 months

My little guy is a year old now. It's weird, Gemma seemed like such a big girl at a year, yet Kolbe still seems like a baby to me. Maybe it's just my perspective. But anyways, he is growing up for sure. Kolbe has learned how to clap and can (sort of) hold a sippy cup. He points at things and gets very excited when he sees something he wants or likes. He loves baths and as soon as we get him out of his highchair after dinner he crawls right to the bathroom. He waves goodbye (to people, and to his food when he throws it on the floor from his highchair tray. yeah.) and is starting to pull up onto his feet (infrequently). He is learning how to really play with toys more (instead of just trying to chew on them) and loves to throw a ball. He's starting to interact more with big sis which is exciting and fun for both of them.Sleep has been rather rough lately (a cold? teething?). He seems to be ready to drop the morning nap, but his afternoon naps haven't been so hot (unless he's snuggled up in the mei tai) and we've had some rough nights. He's tried most every food and is still a fairly good eater. He typically nurses at least 3-4 times during the day (seems to be more-so now with the teething) and on and off overnight. He likes to sleep with us most of the night. He is a very happy little guy and is definitely all boy. God has sure blessed us over this past year. Happy first birthday, Kolbe boy. We love you!!!

And now for some pics from the past month:

Being a "helper" Standing up...typical Kolbe face YAY Kolbe (clapping) He loves carrying toys (or socks) around in his mouth. He looks like a little puppy-dog (which is what Gemma often calls him. She is "cat" and he is "puppy-dog". But that's a whole other post). Throwing his ball
Standing up
Obligatory couch pic
With mommy and daddy with his first birthday cake