TODAY
Out my window: Cloudy, moist and on the warm side of mild. It was fairly Autumn-like the past weekend, but overall it has still been very warm. Highs in the 80s (approaching 90 some days) and lows in the 60s or even 70s. We've left the window open a couple nights which is nice, but it definitely does not really feel like Fall yet, even if the slanty sunlight and shorter days are making it look like Fall. On the deck I have a mum and a few pansies, and the rest of my summer potted plants have seen their better days.
Around the house: I am really liking my microfiber rags, and think that the general purpose and window ones should be enough for about any task I have. Lots of cooking to start the week (more on that below). The kids are off school today and have had a GREAT day just playing with each other around the house and outdoors, which is very welcomed after a very angsty day yesterday in anticipation of the annual parish picnic (they woke up at 6am asking if it was time to go yet). Recently (past 6ish months) they have been getting along SO well and I just love watching them together. I am so glad they have each other.
The kiddos: Well, about two weeks ago Gemma woke up sick during the night and called us and apparently we didn't hear her the first time so she came up the stairs and then puked on the carpet right in front of the bathroom door. This was very very traumatic for her, and for the entire duration of her sickness she was terrified that she would puke during the night again. Well, since getting better she has been getting needier and needier at bedtime ("just lay with me ONE more song, just a LITTLE bit longer"), and she has been waking up anywhere between 4-6am and needing someone to come lay with her. Not the worst thing in the world, she has a queen bed, but still... Then over the weekend she completely refused to sleep in her bed and slept on the floor in the boys' room. She told us it's not fair, the boys have each other, and daddy and I have each other and she is all alone And she makes a very valid point. Even so, I am a little at odds as to what to do. She did very well in the boys' room, and even helped Clem fall asleep last night, but still... I am hoping that this will just blow over and we will be back to normal, but I'm not terribly optimistic. I just don't get it though, she's had her own bedroom for over a year now and this is the first time we've had issues. I guess maybe the puking episode was just that traumatic. I feel badly for her and wish I knew how to make it better.
Kolbe, oh my he can be so intense and impulsive. Sometimes it takes every ounce of patience I possess to make it through and I still look back and am ashamed at how I handled myself. But yet I remember not so long ago Gemma being the same way (well, different, but the same) and now she has grown up soooooooo much and so many of the problems that were huge issues with her are just not even on the radar anymore. Aaron and I were talking about this last night. Parenting your oldest is so hard, everything is new. It's so different with subsequent kids. Still hard, but there is light at the end of the tunnel my friends. Kolbe is a little more chill about school now that the newness has worn off, but he still seems to like it. We have conferences end of next week, so I am really looking forward to talking with his teacher and seeing how she thinks he is doing.
Clem. Oh I am so glad to have my little buddy to hang out with me in the mornings when the big kids are gone. He is so fun. Instead of saying, "thank you for _______," he says, "thanks you to _________." "Thanks you to making me muffins for snacktime." "Thanks you to buying me my basketball shirt." Stuff like that. It is so adorable. When he is carrying something he doesn't want to drop (perler beads come to mind of late), he repeats over and over, "careful, caaaaaareful," and if he waits too long to make it to the bathroom he yells, "hurry, hurry hurry," over and over on his way back to the toilet. He cracks me up. Last night he woke up at 3am crying, haaaaard, because someone took his blue donut. It took me about 10 minutes to calm him down.
In the kitchen:
Today: a big batch of stroganoff for us/Father. I love this recipe, the wine makes it taste sooooo good. I always add a chopped onion and instead of the flour I make a roux. We will have steamed green beans and applesauce on the side. I also made some pumpkin bread today. I've made this recipe twice, using an entire can of pumpkin and leaving out the banana.
Tuesday: crispy chicken salads. We don't buy many convenience foods, but the crispy chicken tenderloins from Sams are so good and the ingredient list isn't half bad. (andtheyaresoeasy)
Wednesday: honey chicken, wild rice, steamed broccoli and cauliflower
Thursday: hamburgers. Aldi is out of their whole wheat buns for the season (sad day, and bread takes up too much room in the freezer to store), but Aaron found some on sale at the other grocery store 4 packs for $4 (they are usually about $3.50 a piece).
Friday: vegetable tortellini (thanks Mlada!)
Learning: Mainly school stuff. I am trying to be very intentional about taking the kids' lead when they are interested in something at home (Kolbe loves science experiments, Gemma likes making books about things...she is on the hunt for information about flowers currently). Lots of reading together. Gemma and I are trying to go to weekly Eucharistic Adoration (for about 10-15 minutes) and then we do a little Catechism lesson together from our Jesus and I book. I am very pleased with the religion she is learning at school as well. They are covering a lot.
Gemma is doing Little Flowers Girls Club this year (for the next four years actually). She was sick the day of her first (monthly) meeting :-( but we did the lesson together at home and I am so excited for the year! It has inspired me to get PACE back out, as it will weave in nicely with her Little Flowers topics.
Reading: Meh, I have been kind of lax on any personal reading lately. Morning Prayer and Saints of the Roman Calendar as it applies. Trying for daily Bible reading/meditation. I go in spurts where I do better and where I don't. With the kids: Rufus M. with all the kids and Ginger Pye with Gemma. I can tell "Unsavory" is making her juuuuust a little scared, but not enough to stop reading it. So many good picture books...Gemma requested that I get Violet Comes to Stay and Violet Goes to the Country again. She told me she is going to write to the author and tell her to make more Violet books. All three kids really like Eric Carle, and in the basket now is Pancakes! Pancakes! and A House for a Hermit Crab. Life Size Zoo was an awesome library pickup, and Clement can't get enough of Ten Apples Up on Top. I also have a stack of books about apples in the basket, and a stack of Autumn books ready to pull out here later this week. OHHHHH there are some good Fall books. I am so happy that we now have our very own copies of Fletcher and the Falling Leaves and Too Many Pumpkins. I am seriously giddy about reading these books (nerdy much?).
Watching: MLB mainly. We watched a little bit of the Republican Debate on CNN the other night. OHHHHH Donald.... And people, PEOPLE!!!! The Gold Rush Alaska season premiere is OCTOBER 16th!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bringing me joy: Reading with the kids. Nice weather and lots of time outdoors. Hanging out just me and Clement in the mornings. He is so very #three these days, but when it is just me and him and we are not on a super tight schedule it is so much easier to be patient. When all three kids are off playing and it is just me and Aaron hanging out and talking about anything and everything under the sun. Those are good times, such good times. My life is very good.
Thinking about: Faith. Trust. Prayer. Abandonment. My relationship with God. Whether or not to attend the upcoming library book sale. Other stuff...
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