Sunday, May 29, 2016

Journal: I'm still here

TODAY
Out my window: Sunny, but maybe more rain?  We have had so.much.rain. the last month.  So much.  We are definitely on the cusp of that transition between Spring and Summer.  We are starting to have more summery days than springy ones it seems.  How did that happen?

Around the house: The kids!!  They had their last day of school on Thursday so THEY are around the house now.  It's good.  It's different.  It's not that I mind having them around, because I don't, but school brings so much good structure to our days, that the prospect of summer honestly had me a little terrified this year.  But it's all good.  It will take some adjusting, but we have a decent amount of activities in June and it seems like we all do better when we have something structured to do.  I will report back...

A part of my desk broke off (thanks, I think, to a certain three-year-old who wriggled his toes on it to boost himself up one too many times), so in order to fix it (in order for Aaron to fix it, I should clarify) I had to empty out my file drawers so it could be tipped on its side, which spurred me to go through my files (I think our burn/shred pile about tripled) and I got us down from three drawers to two...one of those drawers is household-type paperwork, the other is educational/letter-of-the-week stuff for the kids which continues to dwindle as they get older.

I spent the first day of summer break altering Gemma's uniform jumpers and getting a few other things in order for next school year.  I know, I know.....
 
The kiddos:
GEMMA seems to have hit a rough spot lately.  I don't know if it is the transition from school to summer (she really liked her teacher and I know she's going to miss her) or what but she has been not-so-pleasant to be around at times and it is so hard to know how to help her and communicate with her.  Sometimes I feel like I have just completely failed at parenting (that sounded way more melodramatic than it was intended to).  We'll work through it though, so enough of that.  She is devouring chapter books like no-one's business (she is currently on a Beverly Cleary kick, I have NO idea where we'll go next) and her cursive writing is beautiful.  She is obsessed with doing two-minute-math drill worksheets by herself and with Kolbe.  She will have a bit of a hiatus from her piano lessons this summer and as much as I'd like to teach her I just don't know that it's going to work out (without ruining our relationship).  Sigh.  Her playing has come a long way in the few short months she's taken lessons and if we don't continue with lessons this summer I think she will at least continue playing.  She is signed up for a tumbling class at the Y in July, plus art camp, VBS and swim lessons with her brother(s).

KOLBE had his first baseball practice this past week.  He was so stoked he could hardly eat or sleep the 24 hours leading up to it!  I think it lived up to his expectations.  We have a bit of time off for the holiday weekend and then we will be back at it with one game and one practice a week for 8 weeks.  I hope he has fun!  He and daddy enjoy watching the Royals together.  Kolbe learned to tie his shoes the week before school was out so he earned his shoe-bead (which is a big deal in kindergarten) RIGHT under the wire!!

CLEMENT
has had his world rocked with the advent of summer and both older kids being home all day.  He'll adjust.  His favorite things to do lately are color pictures of his choosing that I print from the computer (this can get exhausting, I don't have a wireless printer, and he can be kind of -shall we say- choosy at times)
and watch/help me cook.  I am amazed at how much more patience I have with him while I'm cooking than I did with the others.  I think it's because I don't have anyone littler at my feet begging to get up and help too.  He loves smelling all the spices, whisking eggs, and asking a million questions about how things work and what particular ingredients are for.  It's fun.

In the kitchen:
It's Aaron's birthday weekend and he has been champing at the bit to work on his piece-de-resistance - a whole brisket on the smoker.  So today is all about hanging around the house, yard work, lawn chairs, cold beers and babysitting the smoker.  As long as the kids can remain relatively sane, it will be a good day.  I made a cheesecake yesterday so that is on the menu for dessert.  YUM!  Planning on a broccoli and rice casserole and some corn on the cob to go with the brisket.  Later this week we'll have salads, sweet-and-salty chicken thighs with mashed potatoes and steamed veggies, and hopefully some good leftovers!  Some sort of fish on Friday.

Learning:
  I made some "learning loops" for the kids this summer, with the motivation of screen time earned after completing the allotted amount of tasks from their checklists (which include independent reading, various writing activities including regular journaling, and math facts).  It's too early to make a judgment on how this is all going to work out long term, but so far they are more motivated than I've ever seen them about working on school work during summer.  I found this website and it is so great for generating customized math worksheets. 

Reading: I have started Seeking Spiritual Direction and I think I'm also going to read He Leadeth me at the recommendation from a good friend (whom I've never met, funny story) so we can discuss it together.  Not in person.  Because we've never met.  The kids and I are on book 2 of the Mouse and the Motorcycle series, and we're also reading a book about St. Damien of Molokai.

Watching: MLB and River Monsters.

Bringing me joy: faith, family, community, good books, coffee, "morning dates" with Aaron (and a cup of coffee) before the kids are up, pretty weather, thunder, organizing things, prayer...God is good.

Thinking about: So much has happened in my life the past month (hence no blogging)...I have accepted a part-time teaching position (music!) at the kids' school this coming school year. I am amazed at the way this all fell into place, and while I'm a bit terrified of the big changes ahead (change is hard!) I know that God will continue to see us through this new stage in our lives if we continue to place our trust in Him and pray that we may always do His will.  I will be job-sharing with a good friend with whom I've worked on other musical escapades in the past so I know we'll have good times.  I will have both kids in class (this is both exciting and terrifying as well)!  Clem will be attending preschool (more excitement and terror).  I am trying to find some college courses in which to enroll and get my license current again (I'll NEVER go back to school, I'll NEVER teach again, boy am I getting full from eating my words with a side of humble pie).  I have a lot on my mind.  But it's all good (as Pete the Cat would say).

Pictures to share:  
Aaron found some baby bunnies while he was mowing at the neighbors'.
As I go through my pictures, finding animals seems to be a theme around here of late (the kids currently have a red-eared slider in a bucket and just watched a soft-shell turtle lay eggs in the rocks at our park).  We enjoy our little slice of nature here in suburubia.

Saturday, May 14, 2016

Gemma's First Holy Communion

Gemma's First Holy Communion banner.  All the children get to design and make
their own banners (our last name was along the bottom) and they are
hung in the gathering space of our Church the week of First Communion. 
Gemma did the design all on her own, and we worked together on the actual banner.
Our sweet daughter celebrated her First Holy Communion last weekend.  What a glorious, grace-filled day!  The day started with breakfast and some presents from mom, dad and brothers.  Kolbe picked her out a card all on his own and a Mass/prayer book whose front matched her invitations.  Aaron and I got her a reliquary for her St. Gemma Galgani first-class relic she received several years ago from a priest friend of ours.  Both boys colored/drew her Holy Eucharist pictures, all on their own.  So sweet!
Gemma's dress was the same dress that my flowergirl wore (almost) ten years ago, and it matched my wedding dress, so that was pretty special.  My alterations gal worked her magic on it and it turned out so beautiful.  I found her veil at our Catholic bookstore and it was actually attached to a barrette so that made that end of things so easy-peasy.  Some curled hair and we were good to go!  Mass was at 10am so we had plenty of time to get ready and make it to Church with time to spare.  Our sweet neighbor brought Gemma a bracelet to wear with her dress before Mass (and extra tables and some beautiful flowers with which to decorate)!

This was the extent of our "decorations".  Several pictures and other items from Aaron's and my First Communions, Gemma's baptism items (her prayer book from Kolbe is standing up right by her arm) and some items she made at school in preparation for the sacrament, including a paper altar and priest and her golden clay chalice.  I was so glad Sams had one bouquet of sparkle daisies left (I had spied them a few weeks ago when we were there), and the pretty statue in front of the flowers was painted by our beloved cloistered Carmelite sisters. 



When we got to church we had time to snap a few pictures with friends/teacher and get a family photo.  As you can tell by the family photo, it was taken exactly 3.82 seconds before Clement decided to go on strike and pitch a very long (very.long.) screaming fit to express his dislike downright hate for the fact he had to sit with Grandma and Grandpa during Mass (even though we had talked about this all week and he had been very excited about sitting with them).  Oh. My. Stars.  It was humbling (and a bunch of other things), and I am so grateful to my parents and sister for juggling him during Mass, because the way they did the reserved seating didn't allow us to have siblings in the pew with us. All the first communicants were seated in order in their pews up front, and the parents were in the same order behind all the kids and then went up and joined them for the reception of Holy Communion.  Gemma had the opportunity to receive under both forms and it was so special to get to witness and experience this together with her, just as we did her Baptism.

My sis took some "professional" pictures after Mass that I'll share at a later time, but here is a great shot my dad got on his camera.  At home before Mass I kept on having no idea what to have her do with her hands when I took pictures.  Then I got to Church and saw other people taking pictures and was like, "duh. fold them."  Obviously a first-timer here. 
We had a luncheon at our home (our very small home) afterwards and were so grateful for the gorgeous weather the day held.  We have some great outdoor space in and adjacent to our property and were able to put it to good use!  We were so grateful to celebrate such a special day with so many family and friends.  Almost all our immediate family was able to make it!  The second grade teachers even stopped by for a bit!
The flowers are the ones our neighbor brought (from her yard!) and the Rosary was also made by our dear Carmelites.
Clement's favorite part of the day was the water cooler.  (Because clearly, it was not the Mass.)  Don't be fooled by the fact that he is taking a drink. Our neighbor won't have to water his lawn for the next month after all the cups he dumped out over there.
I don't know what we would have done if had been cold and/or rainy.  Seriously.  So grateful for a beautiful day.
The jumper cables and hedge-trimmer in the background
add such a classy touch, don't you think?!
As I said on Facebook, it was such a grace-filled day.  Experiencing the Sacraments oneself is obviously a very beautiful thing, but watching your children experience the grace and love of God in such a special way is truly a gift.  God is good...all the time!